A thousand golden knots (1 Corinthians 14:33)


Ever open your jewelry box and find your most precious possessions in a thousand tangles?   Most of us have probably spent at least one afternoon sitting at a table with tweezers  trying to undo tightly wound knots in delicate chains wondering how on earth things got so hopelessly messed up.

This is exactly how I felt yesterday talking to a dear friend of mine who is struggling mightily with her weight.  As I patiently listened to her discuss and defend her complicated weight loss plan, I thought about how twisted and knotted her thinking had become. Her diet had over time morphed into a confusing tangle of nonsensical restrictions, each originally added in response to some perceived problem, but in the end creating nothing more than a nightmare of counterproductive, complex and ultimately non-effective constraints that were literally driving her to fits of pure binge eating relief.

Unbelievably, the more we talked the more she seemed convinced that the answer was to introduce yet one more prohibition..one more lifestyle limitation to try and live under.

I thought about two fragile, golden chains that I worked so hard to separate a few years back.  Try as I might, I could not pull them apart. These were not heirloom or expensive pieces- in fact I didn’t really know why I still had them in my jewelry box; I didn’t particularly like them. When I finally gave up, I sold them to the jeweler and happily walked away from the futile effort. (I took the proceeds straight to Bed Bath and Beyond and bought a nice, new frying pan.)

Sometimes, when the life-tangles we create are too tight to undo, the only answer is to give them up,  melt them down and create something completely brand new.


“For God is not a God of confusion but of peace.” – 1 Corinthians 14:33








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